Books to build happy, healthy relationships

Reading can shape children's lives for the better. Here are our favourite reads for building happy, healthy relationships.

Why is reading good for children?

Studies have shown that there is a strong correlation between regular reading for pleasure and mental wellbeing (NLT 2018). Reading also improves a child’s empathy skills (Oatly 2016). Clearly, if we want our children to feel well in themselves, and feel empathy for others, reading is a great place to start. 

Kat, our Parent Support manager, explains why books are so important for children - and what books have in common with windows and mirrors. 

Our top children's books for happy, healthy relationships

With all this in mind, we've gathered our favourite books on healthy relationships. From Early Years to adults, we hope there's something on the list for you.

Elmer and the Patchwork Story 

Who is it for?

Early Years 

We we love it: 

Elmer is all about spreading a message of confidence, friendship and compassion to children.

The Big Bright Feelings Books 

Who is it for?

3-7 years

We we love it: 

These books are a great way to help children learn about their feelings and how to manage them.

My Emotions Activity Book 

Who is it for?

Primary school age

We we love it: 

This book is completely free, and is designed to help children and adults talk about how they feel.

The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse

Who is it for?

6+ years

We we love it: 

It’s one of the most beautiful books in the world. It just makes us feel love!

Wonderfully Wired Brains

Who is it for?

7-9 years

We we love it: 

It’s an informative and inclusive children's guide to neurodiversity. A great read for all children.

Big Little Voice: Colours in the Grey 

Who is it for?

8-11 years

We we love it: 

It’s a book with a powerful anti-bullying message, written to have a positive impact on anyone who reads it.

Daisy Wrestles with Confidence

Who is it for?

7-13 years

We we love it: 

This book takes us into the world of wrestling, which isn’t something you see in many children’s books - and explores how hard it is to stand up to bullying.

The No.1 Ladies’ Detective Agency

Who is it for?

Adults

We we love it: 

It’s entertaining and woven throughout with a deep kindness towards people and a positive outlook on life.

Non-Violent Communication

Who is it for?

Adults

We we love it: 

It’s a great guide about compassion and sharing power with, rather than over, others.

Any anti-bullying book from Peters

Who is it for? 

Schools

We we love it: 

All these books have been carefully chosen to promote positive wellbeing in school

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