
How can I protect myself?
Here are some suggestions from Kidscape and teenagers we spoke to who
were concerned about their safety
- Avoid taking short-cuts through dark or deserted places.
- Never hitchhike, take rides from strangers and try to avoid
walking home alone.
- If someone approaches you asking directions, keep your distance
or walk away and pretend not to hear.
- If you are threatened, yell and run away, if possible.
- If you are being followed, go into a shop or towards people.
- Try crossing the road to see if the person follows.
- Do not wear a IPod\mp3 player\personal stereo as it prevents
you being aware of what is happening around you.
- Keep your mobile hidden when you're not using it.
- Think twice about getting the latest 'phone model - expensive
handsets could attract potential thieves and muggers
- Avoid empty carriages on trains.
- On buses or the underground, sit near the driver or guard.
- If you are attacked, think of what you might do. Would you
talk your way out of it or pretend to do what you are asked, while
waiting for a chance to get away? Only you can decide what to
do in the event.
- If you do have to defend yourself, take a deep breath and try
not to panic. Use anything you have to hand to defend yourself
- keys, an umbrella, the heel of your shoe, hairspray.
- Remember that anything you do or any item you use is to provide
you with an opportunity to get away. Unless you are trained in
self-defence, it is absolutely senseless to stay around.
- If you are faced with a knife or another weapon, probably your
best defence is to remain calm and either give the attacker whatever
possessions he or she demands. If they ares going to assault you,
you might try to talk your way out. Whatever you do, it must be
your decision.
'Getting Away' Strategies to Practice
- If someone grabs your arms with their hands, jerk your arm away in
the direction of the attacker's thumb - this is the weakest part of
anyone's grip.
- If someone grabs you from behind, bend forward and come back quickly,
slamming your head against their face or chin (the back of your head
is very hard, but it may hurt you as well).
- If they have a weapon and you think you have a chance to do something
to get away, scrape your heel down the inside of the attacker's leg,
or kick them in the knee hard. Then stamp on their instep with all your
weight. Then run in the direction of shops or people!
- Kicking someone in the genitals or poking them in the eyes is not
as easy as you might have heard. If you kick up at an attacker, they
may just grab your leg and you will end up on the ground.
- Only ever try something you feel confident you can complete, or you
might just do enough to make the attacker even more angry.
- The best advice is to practise the two or three techniques you think
you could use until they are automatic.
- Finally, if you are attacked, tell someone - ring the police, talk
to a parent, a teacher, a friend. Do not keep it to yourself.